I’ve got a wobbly tooth and I couldn’t wobble it out so I had a carrot. Do you know you need about 10 carrots to get a tooth out……there followed a detailed conversation about the strength of carrots versus the obstinacy of loose teeth when you are 7.
That’s what I miss- the incidental conversations that children initiate, that grandparents go along with, that remind us of the importance of a child’s perspective on the world.. Adults perspectives are far too jaundiced.
Jacob and his brother had their 7th birthday in the summer. They usually have raucous fun filled birthday parties with loads of cake. That’s the good news. The bad is that they live in Manchester and have been unable to have people in the house for months.. The party was cancelled 3 times and finally went ahead at an activity centre where only the children were allowed to go in. So picture 30 parents of 7 year olds dropping off their offspring somewhere where they will have a great time and then come home exhausted…..a total win win….
The phenomena of unintended consequences looms large these days… but are they enough to change behaviours on a permanent basis? Thinking life on a daily basis is boring- the times we have walked out of the house without masks- but at least it puts up the number of steps walked!!
Socialising face to face has to be the gold standard, hugs gold star plus and anything else is a pale second best….
Talking of which (a pale second bet) – the rush to the bottom of competencies in the government. I have lost count of how my times Matt Hancock has had a foot in mouth moment ( has he had any successes?) The Track and Trace, the App, the spurious 6 people only in houses – if I had one iota of confidence that he has surrounded himself with people infinitely more competent than himself that he would listen to, I’d feel we were going to beat the virus. However, I remain dumbfounded that he is still in position.
Ditto Gavin Williamson. Ask any educationalist how they think he’s doing.. their answers are usually too blue to print… they are both playing with people’s lives- and Boris won’t move them whilst they detract from his lacklustre leadership…..
I woke this morning after the first fitful night of sleep since the C-19 pandemic began affecting my community. Normally I don’t remember dreams, but last night was one awful pandemic-related dream after another. I was in impossible and dangerous situations I couldn’t escape from. Different people and different circumstances in each dream, but all with the same theme. I read an article in the Washington Post recently about people experiencing frightening dreams. I’m no expert, but this seems perfectly understandable. We are all coping as best we can, and then at night the demons of our fears grab us in a way that our normal defenses protect us from during the day – most of the time. One more consequential cost of what we are all experiencing worldwide.
Last week my mother turned 97. She lives in a retirement community that has different levels of care. Thank goodness she is still able to live independently in her own comfortable apartment. Two residents in the assisted living unit recently died and several members of staff tested positive. As a result, all residents in independent living have been quarantined in their apartments. Today is day 27 of that quarantine. We were able to get permission from the staff at her community to let a few members of the family who live nearby sing happy birthday to her – us standing in the open courtyard and Mom on the 2nd floor balcony of her apartment. Here’s a photo. Her comment after we’d sung and congratulated her – “ This is one birthday I’m not likely to forget.”
My neighbor decided to make a statement about C-19. Please see the photo of the large boxwoods for which he fashioned wire glasses and masks. It’s drawn a lot of attention from people in the neighborhood who have been out in the good weather.
Meanwhile at the national level, President Trump is exploiting the C-19 crisis to accomplish his right-wing political agenda so he can tout his accomplishments to his base support in the presidential election process. He has relaxed regulation of mercury in the air and water; he is appropriating private land by imminent domain along the southern border to build a wall; he has banned immigration for 60 days, and the list goes on and on. Former VP Biden’s fundraising is $187 million below Trump’s and Biden’s staff is not in place – he has 25% of the number of people Trump has running social media end of his operation. Still, there are more of us than there are of them, and with the recent unity in the Democratic party, I remain hopeful.